Wednesday, 25 March 2015

Avocadolada



Via Yummyaddiction



This drink is perfect for you and your baby or toddler. It is creamy and delicious and it’s a great fiber boost.


Ingredients

2 ripe avocados, pitted, peeled
2 small bananas, peeled
4 cups coconut water
1 1/2 cups frozen pineapple
Instructions

Blend all ingredients in a high speed blender until smooth. If using fresh pineapple, pop in 1-2 ice cubes to create a really creamy, slightly chilled smoothie. Sprinkle with shredded coconut.

Wednesday, 18 March 2015

A history of breastfeeding

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It seems how you feed your baby has always been controversial subject. Historian Lucy Worsley give us a fascinating insight of.

Photo credit Musee Municipal, Macon, France /
Giraudon / The Bridgeman Art Library



If you enjoy the occasional daydream about living in the past, there is a one thing missing from your vision of life as a Tudor housewife or Georgian gentlewoman. Lucy Worsley says that in her own image of motherhood in the olden days she'd always assumed that woman lived near to nature ate homegrown vegetables, sewed their own underwear, and breastfed their babies. Though, she has been exploring the history of domestic life for her book and TV series. She was really surprised to discover that for centuries mothers went to extraordinary lengths to avoid breastfeeding. 


Until 20th century, every woman wanted to hand her baby to a wet nurse as soon as the umbilical cord was cut. In Tudor times (15th-16th century), there was lively debate on the issue of whether mothers 'really ought' to breastfeed their own babies. But this mindset switched from 1600 onwards, when there were widespread complaints that 'bad' mothers were shirking their maternal duty. But then...

Photo credit Corbis

Many moms were forbidden from breastfeeding by their husbands because it inhibited the conception of the next child (breastfeed can delay ovulation). Certainly a landowner's wife who'd given birth to a girl would be expected back in the marital bed as soon as possible to provide a male heir to the family's estates. 

Then there were other woman who wanted to avoid the potential problems that came with breastfeeding. A list of medical risks of nursing made in about 1700 makes pretty daunting reading; a woman might face difficulties 'when milk is too abundant, when it curdles in the breasts, when these become inflamed' it says, or she might 'suffer from an abscess or crack in the nipples'. In the days before antibiotics and creams, these conditions were genuinely dangerous. 

If you were on of the new others who couldn't breastfeed, then prepare for stern words from rather officious gentlemen standing at the Puritan pulpit - religious radicals who also tried to ban Christmas. 'Sure if their breasts be dry'. wrote one of them, women 'should fast and pray together that this curse may be removed from them' .


Photo credit Buzzfeed

From 1700, the change in attitude towards breastfeeding gained some momentum when, for the first time, doctors started to encourage it for a baby's health. the beautiful and influential Georgiana, Duchess of Devonshire (Kiera Knightely in The Duchess) set a new trend after discovering her own wet nurse was often drunk and 'made the bed stink of wine'. So, startlingly for such a grand lady, she began breastfeeding her daughter herself and started a high-society craze. 

Doctors showed more support fro breastfeeding in the mid 19th century when they successfully campaigned against 'baby farming'. Many poverty-stricken Victorian women would deliberately conceive in order to gain well-paid work as a wet nurse, sending her own newborn to a baby farm - a kind of orphanage where the best hope would be for adoption (a long shot in super-fertile Victorian times) and most babies suffered neglect. 


Photo credit Buzzfeed

Bottle-feeding became a more 'practical' alternative by the 1860 with the invention of formula and wet nursing gradually died out. Early formula milks were cow's milk, sometimes mixed with cream, water, honey or sugar in varying proportions. Formula was more 'more nutritious' and likely to avoid rickets. 

Thankfully we've learnt a lot over the years about how best to care for babies, but strong views on how we feed our babies continue to cause debate. Perhaps it always will. 



Natalia Vodianova via Instagram

Lucy Worsley's book 'If walls could talk: An Intimate History of The Home' is available as series and you can watch it via You Tube here



Words Lucy Worsley

Monday, 16 March 2015

Montessori

 

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Maria Montessori, who was born in 1870, was the first woman to qualify as a doctor in Italy. She developed a teaching programme that enabled apparently 'ineducable' children to read and write. She based her ideas on the principle that the senses should be educated first, and then the intellect. According to her skills should be learnt not by endless repetition but by providing exercises that prepare the children to discover things for themselves. For example, learning to look develops into reading, while touching leads to writing.

“The senses, being explorers of the world, open the way to knowledge. Our apparatus for educating the senses offers the child a key to guide his explorations of the world…” – Maria Montessori

Maria Montessori’s approach to education respects and encourages a child’s natural desire to learn. Montessori observed that, when given the proper learning environment and encouragement, young children will essentially teach themselves important concepts such as counting, sorting and learning the alphabet.

Five basic principles fairly and accurately represent how Montessori educators implement the Montessori method in many kinds of programs across the United States. These principles include: 1. respect for the child, 2. the absorbent mind, 3. sensitive periods, 4. the prepared environment, and 5. auto-education.

Respect for the child

On a first principle Montessori said that as a rule, however, we do not respect children. We try to force them to follow us without regard to their special needs. We are overbearing with them, and above all, rude; and then we expect them to be submissive and well-behaved, knowing all the time how strong is their instinct of imitation and how touching their faith in and admiration of us. They will imitate us in any case. Let us treat them, therefore, with all the kindness which we would wish to help to develop in them (Montessori, 1965). The crucial thing is to respect everyones right to have a choice, because when children have choices, they are able to develop the skills and abilities necessary for effective learning autonomy, and positive self-esteem.

The Absorbent Mind


Montessori believed that children educate themselves and wanted us to understand that children can’t help learning. Simply by living, children learn from their environment. Children are born to learn, and they are remarkable learning systems. Children learn because they are thinking beings. But what they learn depends greatly on their teachers, experiences, and environments. Montessori called it the Absorbent Mind because the young child seems to just soak up everything in his environment without even thinking about it. The fact that the child has a mind like this means that much emphasis must be put on education in the first six years of life, while the child learns with total ease.


Sensitive Periods



Although all children experience the same sensitive periods (e.g., a sensitive period for writing), them sequence and timing vary for each child. One role of the teacher is to use observation to detect times of sensitivity and provide the setting for optimum fulfillment.

A prepared environment


Montessori education seeks to provide the child with an environment ideally suited to his stage of development which allows him to respond to the inner call of specific ‘sensitivities’,and the freedom to act in accordance with the natural behavioural tendencies.

Auto-education

Children who are actively involved in a prepared environment and who exercise freedom of choice literally educate themselves.





The results of the studies showed that the children in the Montessori schools had the highest rate of peer interactions. The Montessori children’s interactions with their peers and their teachers were longer. This result showed that the Montessori children had more advanced social skills because longer interactions require more verbal abilities and cooperation from the children. 

Their ability to work in a group was also related to higher levels of both self-efficacy for academic achievement and self-efficacy for self-regulated learning.

They were able to concentrate and focus on tasks for long periods of time and to self-manage their own learning. The children were also found to be confident, responsible, and hard-working individuals.


The children also showed significant development in the areas of number concepts, visual-motor integration, psycho-motor skills, and classificatory skills within the first year. After two years, the curriculum was found to be extremely helpful in further supporting the children’s development in visual-motor integration, psycho-motor skills, and matching and sorting skills.




Montessori materials invite activity. There are bright arrays of solid geometric forms, knobbed puzzle maps, coloured beads, and various specialized rods and blocks. All the materials in a Montessori environment are designed for maximum independence in the child. Everything, including a dustpan and brush, is child sized. Activities are laid out in an orderly way on easily accessible open shelves and the design of the materials make it easy for the child to identify, and gradually correct, any error.





Photo credits montessory.blogspot.com



One way to access Montessori is to incorporate it in the home, through introducing independence, freedom and grace into the family's routine.


Photo credit www.howwemontessori.com


Summa summarum

Take care of practical life and sensorial activities in the preschool years. Practical life activities for care of self, care of the environment, control of movement, and grace and courtesy help your child develop order, concentration, coordination, and independence. Activities to refine the senses give indirect preparation for later academic learning.

Give your child the freedom to explore indoors and outdoors – as long as your child is safe and using the freedom in a positive manner.

Give freedom to the child to engage in his own development according to his own particular developmental timeline.

Respect children thrive on accomplishments when they are able to complete real work with real tools and materials.

Note that rewards and punishments do not encourage the learning process. Learning should be its own reward. Often the “reward” lies is the completion of the task: a puzzle completed, a glass of water poured, a table set or a plant potted.



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Maria Montessori died in 1952. However, for more than 100 years, the Montessori method has educated millions of students throughout the world. It is estimated that there more than 5,000 Montessori schools in the United States and more than 20,000 in 110 countries around the world.

Sunday, 15 March 2015

Hair accessories for girls


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Photo credit Louise Misha

This post is inspired by our big love for hair accessories. They are becoming popular recently thanks to the spring and Boho trend fever. 


These fairy-tale flower crowns from Louise Misha enthralled us soooo much. This brand's love for lace, pastels, delicious lemon tarts, banana lassi, summer evenings and most of all the fun of delving for old objects and the joy of finding little things along the way, led to the creation of one of the prettiest kids clothes lines of today.

Louise Misha



Our favourite when it comes to the flower hair crowns is the brilliant designer behind the brand Magaela. She is a real virtuoso of flower matching art. Her flower crowns are ideal for everyday occasions as well as for any celebration when you want to look extraordinary, graceful and unique. 
You just need to choose the right crown and voila, the magic moment is created, whether it is baptism, birthday, garden party, dreamy family trip to the nature, or a special photo-session. Magaela has a huge offer of hair accessories for moms, too. Check out her shop here and find out more. 














This one-of-a kind head-piece is created from selection of chains from vintage costume jewelry. The Vintage Mini is adjustable ranging in size to fit a baby, toddler or child. It looks like the most adorable Boho accessory for this season.






Hand Made Head Piece from Trust for little dollies. Oh my, oh my!




Something random and superb for moms from Trust. 







Misspuppet created this lovely crowns in gold and silver.

Misspuppet




Fuchsia is a wonderful color and it matches almost every color, style and pattern.

Lacoquetakids






Ladylike.





Milkshake pink chiffon.
Gap





Old pink and ruffles.






Fluo pom-poms are perfect for a little black dress.

Noroparis
















Thursday, 12 March 2015


Get your baby to sleep through the night








Repeating the same calming bed ritual every night teaches your baby the cues for sleep. Knowing what is going to happen will help her feel relaxed and secure. Give your baby a bath before bedtime and follow this with warm drink and a story in bed, and leave her to fall asleep by herself. 

Once your baby is six month old, as long as she is healthy and gaining weight, she doesn't need to be fed at night (says sleep expert Andrea Grace). If babies establish a pattern of falling asleep while feeding, they often come to relay on unnecessary feeds to get them back to sleep when they are older. 

As long as your baby is awake for two hours before bedtime, napping will help her sleep better and for longer at night. Overtired, fractious babies, are much more difficult to settle. Daytime naps reduce the levels of the stress hormone cortisol. 

Your young baby doesn't have full control over body temperature. For this reason you must keep the room at a constant temperature of about 24°C (75°F). Feel the back of your baby's neck to test whether she's too hot or too cold (if it's sweaty, for example she is too hot).

It is good to know that sweet foods like candies, cookies, and cakes can disrupt sleep, usually by making it difficult to fall asleep. These foods trick the body so it ‘thinks’ it’s supposed to become active rather than slow down. Blood sugar levels rise, stimulating body systems for activity rather than rest.

According to the Annabel Karmel there are types of food that produce chemicals in the brain that promote calm and sleepiness. Foods that help sleep contain a substance called tryptophan. Tryptophan produces a brain chemical called serotonin from which melatonin – so essential for sleep that it’s named the ‘sleep hormone’ – is manufactured. Foods that are high in tryptophan include: nuts such as almonds, cashews and walnuts, poultry, in particular turkey, bananas, dairy products – cheeses such as cheddar, gruyere and Swiss cheese have particularly high amounts of tryptophan, green leafy vegetables such as cabbage and spinach, oats, wheat, eggs, tofu and soya products.



Calm your baby down


A warm bath is a solution for relaxing tense muscles and busy minds.


Swaddling


Wrap your baby before she's put down, at least during the first month. She will feel much more secure and contented with something firmly wrapped around her. It helps recreate the sensation of calm and reassurance she experienced in the womb, and helps baby adapt gently to her new surroundings.


Red Castle The Miracle Blanket™


Max and Moose




Tuck her in safely

A blanket can comfort your baby as well as keep her warm. Make sure covers only come up to her chest and tuck them in so they cant creep up over her face. Sleep with the blanket yourself first so it picks up your scent, as that will make your baby feel secure.

H&M Spotted baby blanket
Mamas and Papas unisex baby blanket

The Babasac a multi-tog sleeping bag



The bed


Make her bed cozy and comfortable.




Trend Lab Paddington Bear 3 Piece Crib Bedding Set





Skip Hop Mod Dot 4 Piece Crib Bedding Set



Piccu




Sooth her


Thanks to his natural sucking instinct, your baby will be comforted by a soother. Made of soft latex, NUK's Starlight Soother feels similar to your breast so she'll feel close to you as she drifts off. Its flat, rounded shape helps prevent pressure marks while she sleeps and has been designed with healthy oral development in mind, plus the circulation grooves means air moves and doesn't irritate the sensitive skin around her mouth. After six months of life you should try to stop using a dummy habit. According to the Mandy Gurney, founder of Millpond Children's Sleep Clinic, a baby's memory increases rapidly at eight to nine months, so it's much easier to wean a baby off a dummy at six months old.


NUK Starlight dummies















Think mobile


A musical mobile can work wonders in lulling your baby to sleep. The tune is soothing while the dangling toys will captivate your baby. Use it in the day to amuse your baby while you do chores.


Mamas and Papas Musical Cot Mobile




The Lighting


The latest researches suggests dim red or orange light for a night light because it interferes the least with melatonin levels. Anyway, they are the same colors that feature prominently in the sunset, natures very own way of telling us to get ready for bed. An added bonus is that baby’s find red light soothing as it is a familiar color which can mean a better sleep. Experts believe that this is because the only colored light your baby would have seen in the womb would have been a red color.


Ikea LED night light
Vertbaudet night light 




Sounds to sleep by


Your baby has not exactly had the quietest sleeping environment during her nine months in utero. So it is natural for babies to settle best with sounds that remind them of the womb. The sounds that settle the restless baby are repetitive, without meaning, that lull baby to sleep and they are known as white noise. Some producers of white noise are a vacuum cleaner, a fan, an air conditioner or a dishwasher.


Cloud b Sound Machine Soother, Sleep Sheep 



Instead of worn out several vacuum cleaners, you can just play this. This video helped my baby to fall asleep instantly every time. 


 

























Monday, 9 March 2015



Spring Fashion For Toddler Girls -

Boho meets lady chic









Spring collections are already starting to trickle into the stores here and elsewhere. This is the flower power season, spiced with paprika and nutmeg, neon, Peter Pan collars, dreamy vibes and ’70s-style bohemia. So, dress yourself and your little mademoiselle in chic-girls party dresses or flowery dungarees and enjoy this spring together!

Prolećne kolekcije su u prodaji i evo par isečaka koji su nas posebno obradovali. Ove sezone, kao i u kolekcijama za odrasle, dominiraju cvetni dezeni, tonovi paprike i muskata, fluorescentne boje, petar pan kragnice, romantični detalji od čipke i boho stil sedamdesetih godina prošlog veka. Izaberite neku od party haljinica ili nađite inspiraciju u cvetnim kombinacijama i uživajte sa vašom malom mademoiselle u ovom proleću.


Gap Kids








Next






Imkremer





Kate Spade











Boden




Zara






H&M 





Lindex









Kenzo 





 Kiabi




 Kids on the moon